"The baby" never needed a manual but the mom/parents did so if you are a "practical mom" If you want to know what the pros know but never share with first time parents to be, if you are not bothered by knowing the real facts about how it really is going to be when life begins at home with your newborn baby at least the first two weeks then; This book was written with you in mind! |
My Newborn Care Coach
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In my book, I provide time-honored advice on:
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This book gets real about the biggest challenges of newborn care. It tells the whole truth about what most first-time parents will encounter from the moment their newborn baby arrives, including:
In-hospital care, breastfeeding, sleep training, dad’s role, day and night routines, postpartum depression in both mom and dad, clients, baby nurses, nannies, baby needs also, newborn care, pets, grandparents, pampering and nurturing your magical little baby!
I have been blessed to have lived long enough to be able to put in this book what my great grandmother, my grandmother, my mother and a very humble village taught me from very early on in my life so I wrote this book that is like no other book you have read or will ever read because I am not a writer but I am a woman, a baby nurse, a parent’s coach, a mother, a grandmother, a godmother many times, a caregiver who knows a lot about “all newborns” The newborn baby, the newborn mom and the newborn dad and but of course, I also know about Caregivers. I believe that when you have been given a gift, one should share it especially if in some way it can help those who welcome help!
This is a very informal book written, composed in a very personal manner mainly for inexperienced but practical first- time parents- to be who welcome knowing the raw facts as I tell them all, exposing what all the pros know but do not tell you about what really awaits you as inexperienced first time parents to be when life begins at home with your newborn baby, at least for the very first month or two. My goal is to help prepare those who welcome knowing so they can tackle this momentous experience to make it work as smooth as possible for all newborns, Mom, Dad, Baby making the whole journey what it is meant to be, a joyful and happy time in everyone’s life.
I must warn you that this book was written in a very direct fashion, there are only the raw facts, nothing written is sugar coated, I truly believe that if you prepare yourself and know what you will face it can help make things easier for mom like breastfeeding but only as long as you keep it real, keeping in mind that things happen to us in life only if they are meant to happen for us and that is something so totally out of our control, when it comes to breastfeeding, only the breastfeeding goddesses are in control, still yet, through this book I coach everyone and anyone who wants to make breastfeeding happen and I will also coach those who are not as fortunate as others because not everyone will be able to breastfeed though it might be a dream of theirs to do so, I will teach you in this book how to get the most of what you naturally have in your breast to give to your precious baby when the time comes.
The attitude is to look at breastfeeding as a bonus, if it happens for you, wonderful but by taking breastfeeding with a grain of salt and not preparing ahead of time for something that may not be in the cards for you, at least you are prepared to let it go without beating yourself up, think of it this way; you have already been blessed with the biggest prize and that is having your baby, anything else does not matter, everything and anything else has a fix, life is very easy, it is us who tend to complicate matters and this applies big time to breastfeeding, mom and baby. No doubt about it though, you do have your work cut out for you but remember “to be prepared is to be capable” Knowing ahead of time what is waiting for you around the bend makes the training so much easier.
I assure you that if you have “the guts” “the mental strength” to follow this book you will be mentally, emotionally and physically able and ready to care for and coach your newborn baby in a way that suits your lifestyle and not allow your baby to manipulate and terrorize you as they do in a very innocent way but do and oh so well! By preparing, you and your entire household can enjoy happier days and restful nights something many parents do not enjoy because the truth be told, they did not know what the facts about what really to expect, or they did not prepare mentally, emotionally and physically or they knew but didn’t have the guts to follow through with the coaching. Remember that all babies love structure and they rely heavily on mom, dad and their caregiver to teach them right from wrong, what it is they are supposed to be doing and when, that is how they learn but they will protest and big time too, mom has to learn to look beyond the protest so the baby learns what it is you want and he needs to learn for his own good and yours too.
To coach a baby to do anything especially something he is not happy trying out, takes guts and mental strength on the mom’s side, something the newborn seems to take away from his mom even if she is known to be in her everyday life or even work life as a strong woman, babies have a way of disarming these strengths in his moms and I say moms because the truth be told for the most part, moms wear the pants in the house when it comes to the newborn baby, caregivers and decisions made, dads will be dads, they have their work and other things that he needs to focus on but it is a known fact to everyone who is the boss when it comes to the baby. Not knocking anyone, just stating facts that many believe only they know but I assure you that – that cat has been out of the bag for a very long time, I am just exposing it now and only because we need to admit all to ourselves, only because that is the only way you are going to be able to make this work. It is what it is!
Absolutely no one is closer to what happens when first- time parents settle in with their newborn baby than a baby nurse. All these facts are based on what most first- time parents have experienced over the years and what most first- time parents experience when life begins with their newborn baby or babies, till the end of time unless you decide to work at making things work for you and your baby. This book is down to earth and easy to read, it was edited using my voice but the best part of this book is that it does not contradict itself and it tells it like it is. I know that I will get a lot of heat from many for some of the contents in this book but if there is one thing I have learned in my 64 years is that no matter how hard you try, how well intentioned you are, one simply cannot please everyone, some will welcome this book others will condemn it
If you are an inexperienced first time parent to be especially those without the support of family living close by to help guide you, you need to know that the first few month with your newborn can be downright intimidating and challenging, especially with the whirlwind of advice that exists today. I’ve been there thousands of times with my clients. However, I want to put your mind at ease and show you how simple and amazing newborn care can be when it’s based on the fundamentals. In my opinion, baby care and raising a child, any child, is a matter of self-discipline, lots of common sense, you have to be a bit stronger mentally than your newborn or child to dictate to it and not allow it to dictate to you, knowing how you want your child to turn out, and doing what you know is right by your child so you can do what is best for you. We are their teachers: they look to us to teach them the right way to things from the very start, so you don't want to teach the wrong things, only to turn around later and break what you taught them. There is no best way to do this or that when it comes to the newborn baby but there is a right way or a wrong way to do things, it is your choice which you want to do but remember: Babies and children need structure.
In addition to my book, I provide loving and reliable in-home newborn care to support parents during this precious but extremely overwhelming time for not only the mom but both parents. Although I currently live in New York, I’m available to work worldwide - In NYC I provide both 24 hour also 12 hour and shifts - based on your needs. Please contact me to discuss the possibilities!
E-Mail: babylovenmore@hotmail.com Phone: 347 499 1916
In-hospital care, breastfeeding, sleep training, dad’s role, day and night routines, postpartum depression in both mom and dad, clients, baby nurses, nannies, baby needs also, newborn care, pets, grandparents, pampering and nurturing your magical little baby!
I have been blessed to have lived long enough to be able to put in this book what my great grandmother, my grandmother, my mother and a very humble village taught me from very early on in my life so I wrote this book that is like no other book you have read or will ever read because I am not a writer but I am a woman, a baby nurse, a parent’s coach, a mother, a grandmother, a godmother many times, a caregiver who knows a lot about “all newborns” The newborn baby, the newborn mom and the newborn dad and but of course, I also know about Caregivers. I believe that when you have been given a gift, one should share it especially if in some way it can help those who welcome help!
This is a very informal book written, composed in a very personal manner mainly for inexperienced but practical first- time parents- to be who welcome knowing the raw facts as I tell them all, exposing what all the pros know but do not tell you about what really awaits you as inexperienced first time parents to be when life begins at home with your newborn baby, at least for the very first month or two. My goal is to help prepare those who welcome knowing so they can tackle this momentous experience to make it work as smooth as possible for all newborns, Mom, Dad, Baby making the whole journey what it is meant to be, a joyful and happy time in everyone’s life.
I must warn you that this book was written in a very direct fashion, there are only the raw facts, nothing written is sugar coated, I truly believe that if you prepare yourself and know what you will face it can help make things easier for mom like breastfeeding but only as long as you keep it real, keeping in mind that things happen to us in life only if they are meant to happen for us and that is something so totally out of our control, when it comes to breastfeeding, only the breastfeeding goddesses are in control, still yet, through this book I coach everyone and anyone who wants to make breastfeeding happen and I will also coach those who are not as fortunate as others because not everyone will be able to breastfeed though it might be a dream of theirs to do so, I will teach you in this book how to get the most of what you naturally have in your breast to give to your precious baby when the time comes.
The attitude is to look at breastfeeding as a bonus, if it happens for you, wonderful but by taking breastfeeding with a grain of salt and not preparing ahead of time for something that may not be in the cards for you, at least you are prepared to let it go without beating yourself up, think of it this way; you have already been blessed with the biggest prize and that is having your baby, anything else does not matter, everything and anything else has a fix, life is very easy, it is us who tend to complicate matters and this applies big time to breastfeeding, mom and baby. No doubt about it though, you do have your work cut out for you but remember “to be prepared is to be capable” Knowing ahead of time what is waiting for you around the bend makes the training so much easier.
I assure you that if you have “the guts” “the mental strength” to follow this book you will be mentally, emotionally and physically able and ready to care for and coach your newborn baby in a way that suits your lifestyle and not allow your baby to manipulate and terrorize you as they do in a very innocent way but do and oh so well! By preparing, you and your entire household can enjoy happier days and restful nights something many parents do not enjoy because the truth be told, they did not know what the facts about what really to expect, or they did not prepare mentally, emotionally and physically or they knew but didn’t have the guts to follow through with the coaching. Remember that all babies love structure and they rely heavily on mom, dad and their caregiver to teach them right from wrong, what it is they are supposed to be doing and when, that is how they learn but they will protest and big time too, mom has to learn to look beyond the protest so the baby learns what it is you want and he needs to learn for his own good and yours too.
To coach a baby to do anything especially something he is not happy trying out, takes guts and mental strength on the mom’s side, something the newborn seems to take away from his mom even if she is known to be in her everyday life or even work life as a strong woman, babies have a way of disarming these strengths in his moms and I say moms because the truth be told for the most part, moms wear the pants in the house when it comes to the newborn baby, caregivers and decisions made, dads will be dads, they have their work and other things that he needs to focus on but it is a known fact to everyone who is the boss when it comes to the baby. Not knocking anyone, just stating facts that many believe only they know but I assure you that – that cat has been out of the bag for a very long time, I am just exposing it now and only because we need to admit all to ourselves, only because that is the only way you are going to be able to make this work. It is what it is!
Absolutely no one is closer to what happens when first- time parents settle in with their newborn baby than a baby nurse. All these facts are based on what most first- time parents have experienced over the years and what most first- time parents experience when life begins with their newborn baby or babies, till the end of time unless you decide to work at making things work for you and your baby. This book is down to earth and easy to read, it was edited using my voice but the best part of this book is that it does not contradict itself and it tells it like it is. I know that I will get a lot of heat from many for some of the contents in this book but if there is one thing I have learned in my 64 years is that no matter how hard you try, how well intentioned you are, one simply cannot please everyone, some will welcome this book others will condemn it
If you are an inexperienced first time parent to be especially those without the support of family living close by to help guide you, you need to know that the first few month with your newborn can be downright intimidating and challenging, especially with the whirlwind of advice that exists today. I’ve been there thousands of times with my clients. However, I want to put your mind at ease and show you how simple and amazing newborn care can be when it’s based on the fundamentals. In my opinion, baby care and raising a child, any child, is a matter of self-discipline, lots of common sense, you have to be a bit stronger mentally than your newborn or child to dictate to it and not allow it to dictate to you, knowing how you want your child to turn out, and doing what you know is right by your child so you can do what is best for you. We are their teachers: they look to us to teach them the right way to things from the very start, so you don't want to teach the wrong things, only to turn around later and break what you taught them. There is no best way to do this or that when it comes to the newborn baby but there is a right way or a wrong way to do things, it is your choice which you want to do but remember: Babies and children need structure.
In addition to my book, I provide loving and reliable in-home newborn care to support parents during this precious but extremely overwhelming time for not only the mom but both parents. Although I currently live in New York, I’m available to work worldwide - In NYC I provide both 24 hour also 12 hour and shifts - based on your needs. Please contact me to discuss the possibilities!
E-Mail: babylovenmore@hotmail.com Phone: 347 499 1916
No matter what questions or concerns you have about your newborn, I’m here for you. I will guide you safely over rocky terrain, down the right path to skillful
newborn care, making sure you gain confidence in your knowledge and skills, while everyone enjoys the exciting journey ahead!!
My old fashion tips for modern day parents will give you success with your newborn. I consider my old school methods timeless traditions and they provide great value just like recyclable antiques.
Yvette
~Walking the bridge alone~ "Being pregnant and giving birth are like crossing a narrow bridge. People can accompany you to the bridge. They can greet you on the other side. But you walk that bridge alone.” African Proverb
Thinking about this quote made me think about the different elements of my own labors. I had people who came with me to the bridge, and those who helped me once I crossed, but it's true, we have to walk that bridge alone. Part of me wants to push that thought away and another part wants to completely embrace it.
There is something lonely, thinking about walking a narrow bridge alone. I think there are different elements to this, though. We walk it alone in the sense that no one can truly prepare you for what it is like, no matter how many books you read, or people you talk to. You are your own individual, who responds to labor and birth in your own unique way. You are walking a path that you have never walked before and which is uniquely yours.
On the other hand, there are numerous people to help support you in that journey. Friends, family, doula's, husbands. I believe that there are women with you that have already passed through this life. In that sense you aren't alone. While you must walk your own unique journey, there are those who are there to cheer you on and walk by you. Their thoughts and love create a rope that tethers you as you walk the narrow bridge alone. They are the ones that create the steps and the twine. I would even say, that perhaps they are intertwined in the very elements that make up that bridge. You may have to cross alone, but you are crossing on the shoulders and arms of those who have made their way across also.
Birth from an African perspective
By: Rachel Leavitt
Are you a Frist Time Parent To Be? Or perhaps you recently became parents to a newborn baby and would like some help? I invite you to join my facebook Newborn Care Group: Newborn Care By A NYC Baby Nurse
This group was created for ONLY
FIRST TIME PARENTS TO BE
PARENTS WHO RECENTLY BECAME FIRST TIME PARENTS
https://www.facebook.com/groups/NEWBORNCAREBYANYCBABYNURSE/
newborn care, making sure you gain confidence in your knowledge and skills, while everyone enjoys the exciting journey ahead!!
My old fashion tips for modern day parents will give you success with your newborn. I consider my old school methods timeless traditions and they provide great value just like recyclable antiques.
Yvette
~Walking the bridge alone~ "Being pregnant and giving birth are like crossing a narrow bridge. People can accompany you to the bridge. They can greet you on the other side. But you walk that bridge alone.” African Proverb
Thinking about this quote made me think about the different elements of my own labors. I had people who came with me to the bridge, and those who helped me once I crossed, but it's true, we have to walk that bridge alone. Part of me wants to push that thought away and another part wants to completely embrace it.
There is something lonely, thinking about walking a narrow bridge alone. I think there are different elements to this, though. We walk it alone in the sense that no one can truly prepare you for what it is like, no matter how many books you read, or people you talk to. You are your own individual, who responds to labor and birth in your own unique way. You are walking a path that you have never walked before and which is uniquely yours.
On the other hand, there are numerous people to help support you in that journey. Friends, family, doula's, husbands. I believe that there are women with you that have already passed through this life. In that sense you aren't alone. While you must walk your own unique journey, there are those who are there to cheer you on and walk by you. Their thoughts and love create a rope that tethers you as you walk the narrow bridge alone. They are the ones that create the steps and the twine. I would even say, that perhaps they are intertwined in the very elements that make up that bridge. You may have to cross alone, but you are crossing on the shoulders and arms of those who have made their way across also.
Birth from an African perspective
By: Rachel Leavitt
Are you a Frist Time Parent To Be? Or perhaps you recently became parents to a newborn baby and would like some help? I invite you to join my facebook Newborn Care Group: Newborn Care By A NYC Baby Nurse
This group was created for ONLY
FIRST TIME PARENTS TO BE
PARENTS WHO RECENTLY BECAME FIRST TIME PARENTS
https://www.facebook.com/groups/NEWBORNCAREBYANYCBABYNURSE/